When women have been accustomed to living a certain life, being married for several years and having children, it can be quite a shock when the relationship ends. That results in being alone, sleeping alone, several unanswered questions and so on. Then come the feelings that make things worse, feeling lonely and depressed. It’s quite similar to mourning the death of someone you love. In such a situation, they are faced with several stages before acceptance actually happens. The other four stages include resentment, denial, anger, and depression. Only then is it possible for women dating after divorce.
Very often, they feel pressured into moving on by others. It makes it very complicated however when they still feel for their exes. It isn’t uncommon for them to feel as though they failed at their relationship, which results in a blow to their confidence. And, as these divorces happen quite often later on in life, it is not uncommon for them to feel unattractive and undesirable.
Of course, very few would prefer to never get involved with another man for the rest of their lives. The problem is that once they do start dating, they fall into the wrong hands because they are more vulnerable. They are more vulnerable to married men especially.
Because of this, they are left to believe that their new love interest will prosper and that the married men will join them once and for all. Of course, for this to occur, it would take a miracle as this is truly uncommon. So, these vulnerable women wait time and again for visits or phone calls that often don’t happen.
But because they are so excited and so vulnerable, they tend to turn away from those that love them. They leave their days and nights open in case he may call on them. However, these married men will stay with their own families. On the other hand, the divorced women suffer even more as their own families and friends give up on them. And when there are children in the whole equation, it gets even more complicated. These women have to continuously make arrangements for adults to babysit the kids. They also have to play the role of both parents with more responsibilities. And when relationships do present themselves, there is often resentment on the side of the children.
For men it is a turn off when women wish to get too serious too fast. This is because these two people have different genetic make-ups. Men take things slowly when it comes to dating and women tend to want to go a lot faster. Finding a life-partner is usually the goal for women. While most men have a broader expectation when initiating a relationship. Men only fall in love when they truly know the women.
But it’s important to keep things cool and not move too quickly. Most men will shy away from women that move too fast. Very often, women meet men that they like and they want their relationship to develop into something more serious, which isn’t the case with men. Most women are looking for long-term relationships. Men usually want relationships for other reasons, and will only allow for the development of a long-term relationship if everything is to their liking.